Time out to show some loving…
November 24, 2008 waterswife
Those who really know me, know that I’ve been through a lot in my lifetime. A lot of good…and a lot of bad. I wouldn’t trade any of it, because it has helped shape the person I am … and the person I want to be. However, due to some of the bad stuff in my life (a lot of which was my own fault … choosing the wrong paths in life), I closed off my heart.
Sure, I put on a good facade. I dated a lot of guys who were NOT good guys. I hung out with a lot of people who were NOT good. I basically felt that I didn’t deserve anything good and I would just take whatever I could get.
And then I met the man who opened my eyes … and my heart.
I knew that I was not the type of person that I wanted to be, or the type of person that I thought he deserved to be with. With Tyson’s gentle support, I made the changes that I wanted and needed in my life.
And here we are, almost 4 years later. I love him more and more every single day. I thought I’d share some text messages exchanged between us this after noon:
Tyson: I don’t get many things right the first time. In fact, I am told that a lot. Now I know all the wrong turns, the stumbles and falls, brought be here. And where was I before the day that I first saw your lovely face? Now I see it every day. And I know that I am … I am … I am the luckiest. (note: this is the our song by Ben Folds “The Luckiest”, that he sang to me when he proposed)
Aimee: Thanks for making me cry on the treadmill! LOL. I love you so much. I am the luckiest.
T: LOL, sorry. I just love you a million.
A: Love you a million! I carry your heart, I carry it in mine. (quoting our favorite poem)
T: Mmm. I’m glad you’re my partner forever.
A: Me too. I am glad I am alone in this gym. Talk about an emotional work out.
Anyway, I know it’s all ewwy-gooey lovey stuff. But I just wanted everyone to know that I love this man.
Entry Filed under: love, marriage
1. Amy&hellip | November 25, 2008 at 8:06 am
It’s perfectly WONDERFUL to share mushy gushy stuff. It helps you remember and reminds Tyson that you remember too. I’m so glad you found your best friend and partner :o)
2. christa&hellip | November 25, 2008 at 2:33 pm
That is so cute!! It’s so fun to hear that you are so happily married!! I don’t know all that you’ve been through, but I do know you deserve to love and be loved!! How sweet!!
3. Charlotte&hellip | November 25, 2008 at 8:15 pm
Now I’m crying sitting here at my computer! I love you both and am so thankful that you found each other and are happy … all a momma ever wants is to see her children happy and healthy in every respect ….